Your teen is not the same.
As a parent, you have tried to guide your teen. You’ve attempted to have conversations and spend time with them.
Unfortunately, all your efforts result in your teen giving “one-word” answers. They don’t listen and would rather stay in their room than interact with you.
Their behavior has changed. Now, they shut down and feel depressed, irritable, and anxious. They don’t sleep well and have lost their appetite.
All these changes make you wonder, “Is something bad happening to my teen?”
Teens must deal with many pressures.
Academics have become more challenging, and performing well enough to get into a college creates stress for you and your teen. You want them to get into a great university and notice that they are not performing to the best of their ability.
Then, there is the issue of fitting in with one’s peers. This desire to fit in creates another stress level because they are becoming more aware of what their peers think of them. In addition, social media makes navigating the demands of fitting in even more complicated, sometimes creating stress and internal hurt.
Teens are in transition – as neither a child nor an adult – and want more independence. At the same time, they still rely on their parents for support.
What must a parent of a teen do?
You can help your teen cope with life transitions and maintain a healthy relationship. Together, we can help your teen get on track.
You talked to the pediatrician, and they recommended therapy. That may be the solution, but you wonder, “How can I find the right therapist?”
My approach to working with teens involves providing a safe, nonjudgmental space where they can be open and express their feelings. During sessions, I try to use playfulness combined with skill development and problem-solving, which decreases anxiety and depression.
Periodically, I will ask you and your teen to attend a session together. In addition, you can leave me messages regarding any concerns.
Feel free to call or email me to discuss your concerns in an initial consultation.