Life’s complications can challenge any couple.
No matter how you found your life partner, the two of you have found each other and are in love. It was important that both of your families liked each other (as a family is of the utmost importance), so they could establish a good relationship.
Your relationship and marriage were great for a few years. You enjoyed each other’s company, and emotional and physical intimacy were not a problem.
Recently, however, pressures, such as buying your first home and having children (even though you wanted them), have increased. Taking care of your parents (although you love them) is stressful. There is so much busyness.
You are arguing more and more. There’s a lot to handle, and it’s hard to describe completely.
Irritability has become more prominent between you, and you don’t want to hurt each other’s feelings. One person tends to get into “fight” mode and another into “flight/withdrawal mode.”
The conversations feel cyclical, and a resolution doesn’t tend to occur. Sometimes, it’s hard to understand why the two of you are having a hard time because you know you care and love each other. You wish you could avoid the conflicts.
Couples therapy can help you find a resolution.
I help couples grappling with conflict, disconnection, miscommunication, lack of intimacy, and stress from demands at home and work that are causing challenges in their relationship or marriage.
Using a practical and relational approach, I help couples break negative cycles to create the relationship and marriage they want and make decisions that feel right for their family.
Through our work together, my clients learn to truly listen to each other even if they disagree and begin to prioritize their relationship amid constant demands and stressors.
Learn to say “yes” to what matters and “no” to the things that don’t, have better communication without the fear of constant arguments, experience more harmonious reconnection, and revive the intimacy that went missing from their relationship.
Don’t let life pull you apart.
Couples therapy can help you grow together as you face life’s challenges.
We can work together to identify the stressors negatively impacting your relationship. Then, we can find ways to put aside those behaviors that make it difficult to work effectively as a team.
Let’s work together to keep your relationships running smoothly. Please get in touch with me today for more information on how couples therapy can help.